Party people should be chill.
Wine? That's a whole other bottle of grapes.
Like each person has his or her own likes and dislikes, every wine has its own unspoken demands on which temperature is "best served". Just because there are rules doesn't mean you must adhere to them. Take these suggestions with a grain of salt.
Heck, I'll freeze my wine just to see if I can make sparkling popsicles. Guess what, it's delicious. Point is, no matter how the wine is served, you should be having fun.
Common wisdom offers some basic temperature guidelines for maximizing the flavors of your wine. I've listed some below, but remember, there are no hard and fast rules here, only recommendations.